A. INTRODUCTION
Love could be a word / name that's easy and simple to pronounce. Love makes folks unhappy to be cheerful, evil becomes smart, the war thus peaceful, thus you hate, thus bitter sweet, that wound be healed, it's all within the name of affection. And if love is abused, things can rotate. Love is additionally typically used as a basis to induce one thing. however that such isn't love his name. Love encompasses a universal that means. and each member has its own method of loving. Jealousy typically happens when a loved one with others. That love, that means 1,000,000 names.
B. HUMAN AND COMPASSION
1. that means of affection
According to the Indonesian general dictionary WJS Poerwadarminta work. Love is that the feeling of affection or affection. Love or feeling terribly or extraordinarily curious about his heart, whereas the word love means that feeling or love for every alternative or pity. therefore the that means of affection and nearly simultaneously, therefore strengthening the sense of the word love in love. thanks to that love will be interpreted as a sense of affection (love) to somebody who accompanied pity.
Although love means that nearly identical, however there are variations between the 2. Love is a lot of profound sense implies, whereas love is a lot of discharge, in alternative words derived from a deep love that love will be manifested.
Another opinion says, love could be a feeling you wish or a sense of affection (affection) to an individual. Others say, love is an action / activity performed on humans against alternative objects, a form of self-sacrifice, empathy, empathy, compassion, mutual aid, following the words, followed, submissive, and willing to perform any desired object. It will be concluded that, love is an expression of feeling that is driven by a want and embodied within the variety of behavior amid a way of responsibility and reasoning (rational).
The notion of affection is additionally presented by Dr. W. Sarlito Sarwono. He said that love has 3 components, namely:
? attachment
is a feeling to only be with him, all the priority for him, won't accompany anyone however him. If a rendezvous with him ought to be kept, there's very little cash to shop for presents for her.
? intimacy
Namely the existence of habits and behaviors that indicate that between you and him haven't any distance anymore. Formal calls as father, mother, brother replaced by merely calling the name or designation affection, and so on. Eating, drinking from a dish-cup while not feeling uncomfortable, borrowing garments, carrying one another with none sense owe cash, don't keep secrets with one another and others.
? intimacy
Namely a way of fondling or caress, feeling distant or long missed if not met, the utterances that specific affection, and so on.
Lessons of affection is extremely nice. solely somebody who has given understanding and intelligence by God alone is capable of considering it. Among the lessons-lessons are:
a. actually am fond of it could be a severe check and bitter in human life, as a result of each love can expertise a range of obstacles.
b. That the phenomenon of affection that has been inherent within the soul of man is that the driving force and therefore the greatest power in life preserving the atmosphere.
c. That the phenomenon of affection could be a major consider the continuation of human life, in an exceedingly known-known among them. The phenomenon of affection, if the note could be a binding of the foremost powerful within the relationship between members of the family, social harmony, to like our fellow beings, enforce security, tranquility, and safety in all corners of the world. Love is that the seed of all the love and affection, and every one sorts of friendship, wherever it's.
Expression of affection rooted in one's heart within the variety of behavior, amid thought advance that may result in liability. Love that accompanied accountability creates harmony, balance, peace, among our fellow creatures and his God. thus love could be a feeling of compassion, tenderness, compassion, and devotion expressed by the accountable behavior.
2. kind - a variety of love
The love of fellow humans could be a feeling of sympathy that involves deep emotion. consistent with Erich Fromm, there are four necessities to understand the love, namely:
1) data (introduction),
2) Responsibility (tenggung responsibility),
3) Care (concern),
4) Respect (respect).
Experts have distinguishing love for fellow kith and kin, becomes:
? Love for the family
? Love of friends - friends
? Romantic love (romance)
? Love is simply a lust (eros love)
? Love each other / love (agape)
? Love yourself (narcissism)
? The love of things
? The love of country (patriotism)
? The love of his nation (nationalism)
3. forms of love
- The love between folks and youngsters
Parents are continuously safeguard and defend youngsters.
- The love between men and ladies
When a person who falls in like to the girl of his dreams by continuously loyal to him and loved him all his life.
- The love among humans
Please facilitate one another when one in every of friends, friends, or neighbors we've got issues.
- The love between man and God
When an individual feels on a high stage of his like to his Lord, then he can obey His commands and live faraway from the ban.
- The love between man and atmosphere
No indiscriminate felling of trees, animals don't hunt excessively, doing reforestation, not littering.
4. Expression of affection
Love is everything that comes from the expression of feelings manifested by behavior, like words, text, motion, or alternative media. folks that have feelings of affection, life filled with passion, scores of initiative, and artistic. For the artist's love poured behavior within the variety of cultural work that may be enjoyed additionally by the community. Thus, society will reap the human values are revealed through the work culture.
5. Love within the Doctrine of faith
In Islam, love one should be grounded to ittibaa (followers) and obedience. As in his words,
"If you actually love Allah, follow me (Allah), Allah can love you and forgive your sins". (Qur'an 3: 31-32).
One love that's taught by the Prophet is to like and to like our neighbor, no distinction could be a Muslim and non-Muslims. A love that's expressed are going to be pious charity for the culprit. For this reason, love and kindness that also expressed within the liver and has not been done, it'll get a bequest from God. Instead, hatred is stored within the liver, won't be recorded as an evil till someone is really doing.
C. HUMAN AND SUFFERING
Suffering comes from suffering. The word pain comes from the Sanskrit language means that to carry or bear dhra. means that up-to-date the pain or feel one thing unpleasant. Suffering will take the shape of birth or mind.
a. Torture
Torture will be physical and psychological violence. Torture is additionally a twin of the ultimate day. varied forms of torture are:
- Indecision
- Loneliness
- Fear, there are 3 that are: agoraphobia, specific phobia and social phobia.
Torture experienced by humans additionally raises creativity for folks that have experienced torture or alternative one who witnessed the spirited art directly or indirectly. This was evidenced by the various writings, either within the variety of news, short story or novel that tells the ordeal. By reading the art variety of torture, is predicted to be able to take the silver lining. as a result of it will assess the that means of human dignity, honesty, patience, and piety, however additionally your heart have demon lust, sadism, don't acknowledge humanity, and so on.
b. Pain
Is feeling the pain arising from the limbs. This pain will happen to any person. Rich-poor, large-small, young and previous, rank or lowly can't regress from it. folks are stupid or clever, even if doctors.
c. Hell
Is a place within the hereafter that is a sin.
Qur'anic verse that explains regarding the torment of hell is Al-Fath, verse 6, that means:
And that He might punish the hypocrites, men and ladies and therefore the polytheists of men and ladies that they were prejudiced against God. they'll have a flip (destruction) that Amat dangerous and God's wrath and cursed them and ready for them hell Jahannam. and (Jahannam Hell) that's thus mean-evil place once more. (Q. S. Al-Fath: 6)
D. HUMAN AND JUSTICE
1. Justice
Is the recognition and treatment of balance between rights and obligations. If we tend to acknowledge the proper of our own lives, we tend to are obliged to defend it by operating arduous while not harming people, as a result of people have the proper to measure like us. If we tend to acknowledge the proper of alternative people's lives, we tend to should offer a chance to defend the rights of their own lives. So, justice lies totally on the balance or harmony between the claimant and therefore the person running rights obligations.
2. Honesty
Truth or honesty means that in accordance with their conscience. Honest means that clean hearts of conduct proscribed by faith and law. Honest additionally means that keeping guarantees that are born either in words or in intent, by method of keeping his intentions. If the intention had been born within the words, however not kept, then lie witnessed by others.
3. Fraud
Pujowiyanto in his book of philosophy here and there to clarify that folks who cheated in him are going to be the resistance between the character of excellent and dangerous. Cheating or fraud that's not in accordance with their conscience. However, it can be, somebody had supposed to cheat to form a profit while not having to do arduous. The advantage here is Profit within the variety of matter. Bring the perpetrators assume that the fabric pleasures, though others suffer for it.
4. Vindication
Babysitting smart name is closely related to behavior or actions. Or it's going to be said whether or not or not the great name it's behavior or actions. what's meant by behavior or actions were, among others, the method language, a way to get along, polite, courteous, personal discipline, a way to traumatize folks, actions that are lawful faith, and so on.
Behavior in defending the great name primarily in accordance with human nature, namely:
- kith and kin by nature are ethical
- the principles of an freelance person that has got to be adhered to come about as an ethical actor.
5. Retaliation
Is a reaction to the acts of others, whether or not the reaction was almost like balanced or unbalanced.
E. Humans and anxiety
Meaning is closely associated with human self in order that is why he became agitated. In trendy society itself, people typically expertise anxiety or stress is usually additionally stated where this will happen when people feel deprived in terms of fabric and continuously feel anxious and suspicious lest the fabric is already taken by some other person and continuously felt the shortage.
Alienation will be a Sosiopatik behavior that doesn't notice that humans are social beings and may not live alone. Alienation / estrangement or alienation can be owing to things within the method beradaptasinya (retreatism) an individual refuses the agreed objectives and new ways that of achieving that goal and cause apathy.
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